About this song
- “The Feminine Urge” is a fast-paced song that explores the cycle of generational trauma between women and the connections between mothers and daughters. The song was released as an official single on July 22, 2024, and has an official music video. Member Abigail Morris spoke about the track in two different press releases: (“Feminine Urge” was written) very specifically about a woman’s relationship to her mother. It’s about feminine generational trauma, my feelings about being a woman and that beautiful, horrible realisation that your mother is also a human who’s mortal, fallible and in pain." — via Dork "The beginning of this song was based on an unreleased Lana Del Rey song called ‘Driving in Cars With Boys’—it slaps. I wanted to write about my mother and the mother wound. It’s about the relationship between mothers and daughters and how those go back over generations, and the shared traumas that come down. I think you get to a certain age as a woman where your mother suddenly becomes another woman, rather than being your mum. You turn 23 and you’re having lunch and it’s like, ‘Oh shit, we’re just two women who are living life together,’ and it’s very beautiful and very sweet and also very confronting. It’s the sudden realization of the mortality and fallibility of your mother that you don’t get when you’re a child. It’s also wondering, ‘If I have a daughter, what kind of mother would I be? Is it ethical to bring a child into a world like this? And what wound would I maybe pass on to her or not?'" — via Apple Music . User-contributed text is available under the Creative Commons By-SA License; additional terms may apply. — lastfm