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Album artwork for Girl, so confusing by Charli XCX

Girl, so confusing

by Charli XCX

2026 · Pop · 2:54

About this song

  • "Girl, so confusing" is the tenth track off of Charli xcx’s sixth studio album BRAT (2024). In an interview with The Guardian, Charli agreed with the interviewer's interpretation of the track: [The track seems to expand the conversation about female solidarity into a more genuine emotional space, acknowledging how complicated relationships between women can be.] I’m glad you put that so eloquently, because I suppose I’ve been nervous that people would just think that I’m being a real bitch. What you’ve said is totally right. We’ve got past the point of the media always pitting women against one another. In the mid to late 00s, it literally sold magazines and papers: ‘Britney versus Christina’, ‘Paris versus Lindsay’. Then feminism became a popular marketing tool. In the music industry, it was distilled into this idea that if you support women, and you like other women, then you’re a good feminist. The reverse of that is, if you don’t like all other women who exist and breathe on this Earth then you’re a bad feminist. If you’re not a girl’s girl then you’re a bad woman. That’s just such an unrealistic expectation of women. Relationships between women are super-complex and multi-layered. You can like someone and dislike them at the same time; you can feel jealous of somebody but they can still be your friend; you can have the best time of your life on a night out with someone but not be that close to them at all. You can pose with your arms around a person at an awards show, but in reality you’re feeling not worthy, or small – or really cocky, or confident, or a huge multitude of different emotions. One day you can feel completely on top of the world; the next day, you can feel like your career’s over. The song is saying, sometimes it’s really confusing to be a girl, and that’s fine.” . User-contributed text is available under the Creative Commons By-SA License; additional terms may apply. — lastfm
  • "Girl, so confusing" (stylized in sentence case) is a song by the British singer Charli XCX from her sixth studio album, Brat (2024). She wrote the song with the English producer A. G. — wikipedia

Chart history

Peak position and weeks on chart across Australian community countdowns.

Chart Peak Most recent Weeks on
ARIA Top 50 Singles #50 2024-07-01 (#50) 1

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